So your crush or man has been ‘flexing’ on you because you are always the one caring and doing most in the relationship right? No worries, these are 4 ways you can use to ignore him until he chases you.
- 1. Give Him a Taste of His Own Medicine
You are the one always doing the calling. And every time when you call, it feels like you’re over ‘working’ the relationship. I’ve been there. Now take a pause.
He doesn’t ask how your day was and as a matter of fact he acts like he is super busy. He ignores you sometimes even when he sees so many of your calls and comes back the way he wants.
It’s time to give him a taste of his own medicine, go MIA for a week and see if he will look for you. If he doesn’t then you can be sure he can live without you and you’re just an addition.
- 2. Time to Ignore Plans You Both Made
Usually, you’re always the one trying to meet up and now you want to switch things up and remind him that you don’t sit around waiting for him. Decline his offer no matter how much you miss him and think of the times you wanted to see him but he made up excuses.
- 3. Don’t Post Him On Social Media – for once!
You can’t be ignoring this guy and you also want to let him know of everything you’re doing. Please be a bit mysterious, post things that don’t always give out what you’re doing or who you’re with. There’s no point in him seeing everything you’re doing so why should he look for you?
- 4. Turn him down occasionally
He will say that he will take you on a date but you know most of the times he actually doesn’t. It’s time to remind him that he doesn’t impress you and you’re not going to jump with joy just because he sent you airtime or money, he needs to work harder.
Conclusion
Although this tricks may not be systematically, you can put them into action and evaluate how best it works for you. The truth of the matter is men are hunters.
Don’t make things easy for them, unless you want them to run you down like a flat tyre. Best, is to ‘price’ yourself, respect yourself and tease your man, don’t easily please him all the time.
Best of luck
Source: OccupyGh.com
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