A Nigerian lady has shared her experience with a Lagos big boy who demanded that she follow him to his house after they went out on a date.
The lady claims that she recently spent time with the man at his request at an undisclosed place in Lagos.
However, after the date, the man insisted that she goes home with him because he had spent so much money on the hangout. The lady declined, noting that they were just getting to know each other.
Taking to her TikTok page, she shared a video recording of the conversation that ensued in his car, but their faces were concealed.
In the video, the man is heard asking the lady to come over to his place since he had apparently spent a lot on their date and had the feeling that they both connected pretty well. The lady, however, declined, noting that they were just getting to know each other.
This conversation highlights the entitlement mentality that some men exhibit when they spend money on dates. The idea that spending money on someone entitles them to sexual favors or a guarantee of intimacy is unacceptable and wrong.
It is important to remember that a date is a mutual arrangement, and both parties should respect each other’s boundaries.
In conclusion, this conversation serves as a reminder that it is essential to communicate openly and honestly when going out on a date.
Mutual respect and consent are critical, and both parties should be mindful of each other’s feelings and boundaries.
Source: OccupyGh.com
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