My Boss and I Have Been Having An Affair For Almost Two Years Until This Happened – Ghanaian Woman Confesses

&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">A Ghanaian woman has shared a confession of how she cheated on her husband with her boss for two years without him knowing until this happened&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>However&comma; she revealed that everything changed the day the husband met her boss&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image size-full"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;cdn&period;occupygh&period;com&sol;file&sol;occupygh&sol;2022&sol;05&sol;default-woman-concerned-confession&period;jpg" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-145318"&sol;><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>In her lengthy post&comma; the anonymous lady shared&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>My boss and I have been having an affair for almost two years&period; I am his personal assistant and he shares very personal issues with me&period; He told me about his marital problems and how disrespectful his children are becoming&period; He told me about his wife’s spending habits and how greatly it is affecting his finances&period; I feel like I know him more than his wife&period; He has even shared some of his passwords with me&period; This is how much he trusts me&period; For the past eight years of working as her PA and almost two years of being her girlfriend&comma; I haven’t disappointed him and I don’t intend to&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>I am married myself&period; Five years in&period; We are okay&period; I wouldn’t say we are living a fairy tale happily ever after marriage&period; We try to make time for each other&period; We try to be there for our daughter&comma; and so far so good&period; I just feel like there is no real spark anymore&period; My marriage feels forced&period; Almost like we are working excessively hard to keep ourselves together&period; With my boss&comma; it feels so easy&period; We don’t force conversations or try too hard&period; We just flow&period; My boss is more romantic and funny than my husband&period; He knows how to hold and keep conversations&period; He knows how to handle my mood swings and calm me down when I am overwhelmed&period; He has told me I complement him in ways his wife doesn’t&period; I wish I could say that having a relationship outside my marriage makes me feel guilty&period; But I don’t feel bad at all&period; I feel like my boss is more like my husband than my actual husband&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>The issue is&comma; I had no idea the two men knew each other&period; I had no idea my boss and husband had been mates in school&period; Not just mates actually&period; They were good friends&period; Even to the point where my husband had to perch with my boss for a while when he didn’t get a room to sleep in when they were in Uni&period; This came to light when my boss organized a little Easter party on Good Friday&period; I didn’t want to go with my husband&period; I didn’t want my husband to meet my lover even if he wasn’t aware I was having an affair&period; But he was so insistent&period; Our daughter was spending her vacation with her grandparents&period; I had to give in&period; My husband and my boss were so excited to see each other after all these years and I felt very awkward in the middle of all of it&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>They were chatting away the whole night&period; My boss’ wife was not around&period; She didn’t like the idea of an Easter party for her husband’s workers so she was absent&period; I did not like the idea that these two men knew each other at all&period; I was uncomfortable the whole time and I couldn’t wait to leave the place&period; The worse part is that my boss called me later and told me it was over between us&period; According to him&comma; my husband is a good friend to his and he did not want to hurt him&period; In addition to that he is transferring me to another branch of the company&period; I cried very hard that day&period; He cannot do this to me&period; Not after all we have been through together&period; Not after what we have shared together&period; I have been so vulnerable to him&period; He just used me and dumped me and he is claiming his friendship with my husband is the reason&period; Does this even make sense&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>I will not accept this transfer&period; If he forces my hand&comma; I will go straight to his wife and show him our chats&period; I don’t care if I destroy my marriage in the process&period; But I will never let this man do this to me&period; I love him&excl;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p><strong>Source<&sol;strong>&colon; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;occupygh&period;com&sol;">OccupyGh&period;com<&sol;a><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>Source<&sol;strong>&colon; <a href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;OccupyGh&period;com">OccupyGh&period;com<&sol;a> <&sol;p><p class&equals;"has-text-align-center has-large-font-size"><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;chat&period;whatsapp&period;com&sol;JVGCtXdCoiKHCI3CXwMC5l" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noreferrer noopener">Tap To Join Our<&sol;a> WhatsApp Community<&sol;p> &NewLine;

Neil Blackson: Neil Blackson has a B.A in Communication studies from the Ghana Institute of Journalism & currently undergoing a Bachelor of Laws (LLB) degree programme at the University of Cape Coast. I focus on local news, entertaining news, sports. I'm a socialite and a Manchester United fan :D Contact me on Email: occupygh@gmail.com or Phone: +233 247 659 843